How do i get my husband to stop holding grudges
Original Posted by - smash Please i need help o. this thing shas been causing so much friction in my home. My husband can hold grudges for Africa!
i offend him, i dont even know i did. he wouldnt say anything about it. i will just notice he is 'carrying face'. everything i do ,nothing will work or make him happy. he will keep saying 'im fine' each time i ask him what is wrong.
and then he will suddenly get better. then.maybe 2 months later, out of the blues, he will just start talking about "this is how you did this and that 2 months ago. this is what you do all the time blah blah blah" and it will now be that thing that he was angry about 2 months before!
it is so so annoying. i thought its women that carry face. me, once i am offended, i say it and let it go. but my boo will carry the thing in his mind.
i have talked to him severally about it, he still is not changing. please anyone have any suggesstions for me please. thank you o